Divorce: 6 Tips To Keep In Mind

Six Things to Keep in Mind When Going Through a Divorce

1 – Possession is key

If you would like to keep something that you currently have possession or custody of after your marriage dissolves, it is best to hold onto it. We understand that you may be trying to be the bigger person by giving up possessions or custody time that you value, but it is much easier to maintain possession of something if you never give it up in the first place. If you would like to keep the family home, please do not move out. Similarly, if you would like to maintain custody of the children, please remain in their lives.

2 – Keeping cost low

We would like to provide you with the best service possible, while also helping you to save time and money. One of the keyways to do this is to limit the amount of time it takes to handle your case.

5 tips to keep cost low:

1. Go to your meeting with your divorce attorney prepared! Have a game plan ready and a clear summary of your case and the outcome you’re hoping for. That way, you can make sure you get the best result possible.
2. Before you meet with your family law attorney, it’s a good idea to make a list of any questions or concerns you have. That way, you can make sure you get all the information you need during your meeting.
3. Let your family law lawyer know what’s most important to you in this situation. Make sure to tell them your priorities so they can make sure they’re taken into account.
4. Make sure to take notes during this conversation – it’ll help you remember what questions you need to ask and which ones we’ve already figured out a solution for.
5. It’s important to plan ahead and think about what issues might come up during your divorce. Consider what evidence you might need to counter your spouse’s evidence. Also, make sure you get all the financial information you need, like retirement, life insurance, and health insurance. The sooner your attorney has this information, the sooner your case can be resolved.

So remember, prepare before meeting your divorce attorney: understand your case, list questions/concerns, take notes, consider evidence, gather financial info. Use a friendly tone & indicate approval. This will help get the best result & resolve your case quickly.

This may seem simple, but it can be a crucial advantage. The first party to file frames the entire issues of the case. Initially. The other party is forced to play catchup from the very start. This can be overcome but filing first is certainly preferable.

4 – Temporary Doesn’t Always Mean Temporary

Defending a win is much easier than trying to overturn a loss. Many clients wait to get an attorney until after temporary orders have been issued, thinking they can handle it on their own. Unfortunately, this isn’t always the case. The same judge who issued the temporary orders will usually issue the final order, so to overturn the temporary order, you’ll need to show that something has changed or that the judge made a mistake. This can be difficult, so it’s best to try to win the temporary order in the first place for the best chance of success in the long run.

5 – Think before speaking

It’s important to stay calm and communicate in a friendly way with your spouse during your separation, as anything you say can be used as evidence in court. If you find it too difficult to remain civil, it’s better to take a break than to lash out. Remember that angry texts, tweets, social media posts, and phone calls can all be used against you in the proceedings, even if you feel justified in sending them.

6 – Walk the Walk

It’s important to act in a way that’s consistent with what you’re asking the court for. For instance, if you’re asking for more time with your kids, make sure you don’t miss or be late to any scheduled visitations. Show that your work schedule allows you to care for the children. If you say you can’t afford alimony, don’t go out and buy a new car. The other party may use these actions to show that what you’re asking for isn’t reasonable or justified. Be honest – the court will take note of your credibility.

Gem State Attorneys – Family Law Attorneys

At Gem State Attorneys, our knowledgeable, experienced, and diligent attorneys are here to help you and your family when you need it the most. We understand that navigating the legal process can be overwhelming, so our Idaho family law attorneys are here to guide you and protect your rights every step of the way. Whatever your legal needs, we are here to help.

You can reach us at (208) 900-9529 to schedule a consultation with the Gem State Attorneys team of family law attorneys. You can also contact us here. We are here to assist you with any questions you may have and to help you find a solution to your family law needs. Please do not hesitate to reach out to us.

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